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If I had it to do all over again, I would have no compunction about once more marrying an Isaan girl. However, the detail for me that proved rather consequential was my Isaan girl’s longing to come to the West and be with me. That, and her ambition that bloomed after her first year here.
Granted, I wanted her with me, too, while I finished out my final working years. We had married when I was 55, and I needed to work until I was 60. That was too many years of stressful working life to abide without her.
However, it was also to mean that her two sons — yes, she had two — were to eventually come to Canada, as well.
And suddenly, flights to Thailand that had been formidable enough for me from the perspective of cost fast became practically impossible. On top of escalating personal family debt, affording four round-trip fares from Western Canada to Thailand was prohibitive.
I have not been to Thailand since I married my wife in 2005. She came to Canada the following year (2006); then went back home for an extended visit of several months in 2007.
She made another trip back to Thailand in the Summer of 2008, this time to collect her sons who finally had been granted Visas. They came here with her in September of that year.
The three did make a visit back to Thailand the following year (2009); but it proved so excruciating for the older boy to have to leave his Thailand home and return to Canada to start Grade X, that his mother and I realized that it was not feasible to have him undergo that transition ever again.
Besides, the trip had been far too expensive.
So no one has been back to Thailand since 2009. The older boy is now 17; the younger is 15.
Although I am retired, my pension is small. My wife brings home as much each month from her Thai restaurant salary as I Net with my Pension. We could not make it without her earnings.
And I am 62. I will be 63 on October 11.
My retirement dream has been suspended. It had been a dream of relocating to Thailand after I had turned 60 and retired; but now, I cannot see when it may ever be possible for that to happen. Both boys will have to have finished high school, and be self-sufficient — unless they each wish to return to Thailand with their mother and I.
Frankly, it is such an entanglement that I cannot clearly project just exactly how it will ever be possible for me to spend any of my retirement life in Thailand.
Not without some sort of financial windfall, at any rate.
Some Farang – Isaan marriages fail. But I would not ever say that it was because the wife was from Isaan.
However, some Farang men firmly do believe this fiction. You need only to browse StickmanBangkok.com, as with this so-called reader submission: You Married A Woman From Where? Another is These Isaan Girls. Even a website promoting Lao ladies as potential wives describes the ladies of Isaan rather disparagingly: Isaan Girls In North Eastern Thailand. Ultra-negative responses come as readily as do praise.
Even articles that purport to be helpful are biased towards the negative: A little manual for the handling of Isaan – Ladies.
And how’s this for advice? Hardly objective: Stay away from Isaan Girls.
The opinion about the value of Isaan women runs the gamut, as you would see in many of the forums — and even in places such as Yahoo! Answers: What is the appeal of Isan women?
A rather decent exercise in objectivity was made in this March 7, 2009, blog post titled Bad and good things happen to Isaan (Thailand) women.
This Excerpt from Chapter 7: Modern Courtship and Dating at ThaiSexTalk.com is reasonably objective, too.
But what of the Isaan lady’s perspective?
A very brief article in The Nation back in 2009 claimed a poll showed that more than 60% of Isaan women wanted to marry a Farang.
There is a female Thai blogger who presented her own perspective in an October 26, 2011, post she titled Mia Farang.
My post is not intended to be anything near definitive, and was simply borne of some musing. And since I feel I have spent enough time doing so, perhaps I will suspend it here with a few further samples of opinion:
Right like don’t tell me you havn’t heard this before and by all means I am not trying to get at anyone or anything, this post is just to know what you guys out there both living in thailand and overseas think about this whole spectrum as is. … What im trying to say here is not only do Thai girls look at farangs with girls from Isaan as if its a shock or something, by all means they will be a handsome couple.. but to a Thai Women, Women from Isaan, those darker in there …
Publish Date: 07/23/2012 3:57
In that unbiased oracle of Thai wisdom The Nation, a poll of 484 single young Isaan women this week has revealed that it pays to be male, English, ugly, and of an indeterminate age, if you are in search of your perfect female …
Publish Date: 05/28/2009 7:57
American guys tend to admire them, such as the very small and incredibly darkish skinned Thai ladies and it is a great place to locate all of them! It is usually asserted you haven’t visited the “real” Thailand right up until you‘ve gone to Isaan.
Publish Date: 06/16/2012 13:36
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Publish Date: 03/14/2009 19:28
Thai Isaan girls and women, pictures and short shots, june 2011
Uploaded by infoudonthani on Jun 23, 2011
Many farangs (foreigners) have a relationship with Isaan girls. Whats the secret behind it?
If you know some thai who reside outside thailand ask them if they are from Isaan, the northeast provinces. Great chance that they are.
Here some different types of Isaan girls and women. Most of the shots were made in Udon Thani city, Thailand (2011). Some you see here have already a relationship with a farang.
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Hua Hin Massage Oranges
Uploaded by WatchRyder on Feb 8, 2011
Oranges Massage is well presentable and pretty enough from the outside.
Directly you can get to this from an intersection off Pala-u Road (turn right as you head away from Hua Hin on it on the only major ‘road’). There is also a handy ‘alley soi’ that you can get to it from the Sugar Cane Bar / V P Massage Lane.
From the outside this area has several other massage shops and hair salons nearby. In particular you have the ‘Stay Young’ Salon / massage shop almost opposite to Oranges. They will heckle and barrack you with the usual cat calls ‘You want massage sir?’ etc.
Inside Oranges Massage:
Ignoring them (they are a little OTT) I headed inside Oranges. The Decor is white leather massage chairs downstairs with a nice sofa for visitors to relax on. The teak for both the flooring and the stairs gives it showing of the roots going back several decades.
The place has about four massage girls working here. They are from Isaan and for a small massage shop it is laid out using the best of what space they have. I am told it’s 300 baht for a thai massage and 300 baht for an oil massage. An up-front girl confronts me, she seems pretty enough but there is a bit of an ‘attitude’.
Sitting down at the computer mixer is a sweet-looking girl, the quiet type you might say. Going on a gut instinct I ask for her and she happily jumps up to escort me upstairs to where the massage really goes down.
Once up the stairs I turn left and there are about 5 separate rooms with lockable doors. My lady escorts me into the central one. I take some time to be impressed with her looks and figure. Neither slender nor plump she’s got a great body. The pretty blue dress also looks great, neither sleazy nor conservative.
Inside the room there’s room to move, but only just. In order to get the 5 rooms built they’ve made sacrifices for space and it shows. There’s enough width for a thick floor mattress and a small clothes hanger but not much else. This didn’t bother me though but for some who like a big room to swing things in it might be off-putting. All the while music plays from speakers upstairs and downstairs (controlled by the computer mixer in reception). This plays louder than Love Teen Massage levels but I’m sure can be turned down on request. The bed is comfy, not too hard or soft.
Once inside she begins the massage. Smooth hands, gliding…
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